This morning, I went to breakfast with two friends in Los Gatos.  (在這裡兩天都是在腦袋醒眼睛還沒醒的狀況下被人家叫起來)

 

Los Gatos Cafe is the favorite place of one of the friends.  In deed, its breakfasts were really good.  I ordered Copenhegan Pancake, pancake filled with raspberry cream cheese.  It was so good.  Greedy me, I further ordered a Raspberry Coffee cake.  The cake was too sweet (又忘記了美國人的甜 是我們無法接受的), I could not terminate (finish:P) it.

 

Two pix were my new orchids that were bought at the farmers’ market today in Los Gatos after the feast we had this morning.  (肖ㄝ bought orchids in north California then brought back in LA.)

 

 

有個客戶打電話給我 因為他不高興

不高興什麼呢?

他說"她(他)問我的  我都照實回答  我不說謊 我只選擇不說  可是只要你們問我就說"

問話的技巧 聽話的能力都是一個考驗

 

 

A person choses what she or he wants to say.  Yes, she or he is also not lying.  But if she or he does not clear up something that  can be misleading, she or he are lying.  If a person listens, does not raise what he or she doubts, he is willing to be lied.   A person is willing to be lied, he or she then does not qualify to question or blame others.

 

人總是檢他要講的

聽的人也很容易去同情"弱者"

事情的一體兩面 有對有錯

當事者自己不知 我們聽的人很容易有聽有到(?) 

有聽有到就是"路見不平拔刀殺死別人的敵人"

結果 才發現原來"別人的敵人 是自己的好朋友" (殺錯人了)

 

 

When a person crossed the line we setup unexpectly, we first got uncomfortable.  If the person crossed the line again, we got upset.  Then, if the person jumped beyond our limits, anger was what we had.

 

No absolute win and loss.  I am nobody can not win as a somebody but only trying to win a little and loss less.

Only couple of pictures, not eligible to save at Photo section, thus, place here.  Went to San Jose with a friend to have brunch yesterday morning.  Did not take pictures of food since the food there of Marriott is always "ok" only.

也許有人覺得 事情過了就算了 而還想用當時的想法來思考

也覺得別人應該用"事過境遷"的心情來原諒"自己"

當發覺 別人並不是這樣的想法的時候

很容易的就覺得 "為什麼?為什麼? 同樣是xx(let say 女人好了 比較不刺激"自己")就樣這樣為難女人"

 

哈哈

 

別人可以原諒自己當時的無知

可是 自己不能去期望別攘原諒自己當時的無知

自己應該承受當時的行為而造成現在的結果

我們應該感謝 後果只有如此 沒有更壞的了

(ㄟ 這是不是像在講道啊  I don’t have such intention but tell the truth only.)

 

 

沒什麼好怨的

若真要怨 就要怨自己 可是

怨自己有什麼好處呢 ?   只不過是一個笨蛋罷了

找尋自己的未來 alternative is the right way to treat yourself.

 

don’t blame on others but myself

 

事實就是事實 既然做了 就不怕人說

既然說了 就要勇敢承擔後果

或者 在說或在做之前 想清楚啦

(我的座右銘ㄝ)

 

 

 

huh, 做人不可以像 tulips 

怎麼第一天抬頭挺胸

之後就彎腰了勒

 

haha, just a feeling today.  今天突然的想法

工作呢 應該就是一群沒事做的人在玩遊戲 只是這遊戲 事關重大

大人的遊戲 在所有藉口 用盡後 唯一的藉口 促進經濟的藉口罷了

 

以為來美國這麼久了 早習慣了這裡的culture.

But today, had such uncomfortable feeling. 

What is ??? afraid of?  anyway, 要小心不要一不小心威脅到人家

 

Taipei is not good, yes, indeed, in living environment.  But, I never encountered but situations.  Or, I was lucky to meet so many good superviosrs and bosses.  God bless me.

 

it is always to frustrated to watch such shows on TV each time. 

 

 

 

 

The program was host by  Mr. Tom Brokaw (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tom_Brokaw).  Glaciers at Glacier Naitonal Park can be disappeared in his lifetime.  [ what a shocking truth.]  Which mean the glaciers of course can be gone during my lifetime.